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From John Green's novel 'Looking for Alaska'. The characters wrestle with grief and guilt; the way out of endless suffering, one concludes, is forgiveness.
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Acı labirentinden çıkmanın tek yolu bağışlamaktır.John Green
John Green'in 'Looking for Alaska' romanından. Karakterler yas ve suçlulukla boğuşur; bitmeyen acıdan çıkış yolunun bağışlamak olduğu sonucuna varılır.
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